I find that it is very important to find what you truly are, and that takes time and effort. Once you have that, you can make decisions about how you are going to be, and what you want to be. It is a process and requires attention to detail, but its worth the time.
I think there is a certain beauty to being able to define what you are and then figure out how to make the most of it. We are all different, with different strengths, weaknesses, and desires, and it is important to recognize that and find the ways to give of yourself in a way that is most effective for you.
The problem with this is that when you’re in a good mood, you’re more likely to use up your time. It’s like when you’re in a bad mood, you’re more likely to get stuck in an old-fashioned day at work, getting your house in order. Your brain is going to need more time to process this information. I think that’s a good thing.
But its not that simple, because the problem is that we can be in a good mood and not be able to figure out what to do with it. We can also be in a bad mood and have no idea what to do with it. This is why rants get longer and longer and longer.
I have had the most fun when I have been on a long rant and the other person has had a good laugh. I think that is a good thing too, because it is our job as adults to laugh at ourselves. We need to laugh at our own behavior and not our own shortcomings.
We are not immune to the urge to be funny or sarcastic. We know we are having fun but we are not in the mood to be as serious as we could be. We know we are having a good time, but our moods are so dark we can’t be around people anymore. So we come up with new ways to take our mind off of that.
When our moods are dark, we are apt to want to take our mind off of something. You know the drill if you are me, you need to get your mind off of the fact that your girlfriend has broken up with you. You are desperate to forget about her. You want to keep the memory of her as a dark cloud in your mind. Now you want to use your friends to bring you back to the dark mood.
The same thing is true of romantic relationships. We are so afraid of the dark that we want to get back to the light. Sometimes our feelings are so dark we want to be in the light.
I know you are probably worried about being hurt again, but worry no longer. You can’t get hurt, so if you are feeling bad, that is your problem, not mine. I can only imagine how much I would hate to see you hurt again. I like to think you are still hurt but that’s only because you are so afraid of the dark. Remember that you have control of your emotions. Just think about it logically, and then you’ll be able to control them.
Bloomingdales has a tendency to go dark and black, but I actually have been a great fan. I love dark stories with little kids, the kind of stories that make me think there must be a good reason for everything. It’s a very comforting story for a kid to read, and its a story that lets a kid learn from the mistakes of his parents and the mistakes they made in life.